Look out for #1! That phrase often has negative connotations, drumming up images of selfish, greedy selfie-taking narcissists. But in reality, there are times when you simply must put your needs before those of others, and now is one of those times. This is especially true when it comes to romance. By the way, don’t expect the SO to be happy about you needing more space–and more of a voice. Pluto in your house of commitment indicates that a partner may be (too much) in charge.